There’s a question: “What’s the best state for a woman?” The highest-rated answer is just two words: “Calm.”
In today’s noisy society, we’re constantly bombarded by various sounds and distractions, and our inner selves are easily disturbed.
Women, especially those juggling multiple roles in marriage, work, and life, can easily get caught up in anxiety and frustration.
As Tagore once said, “Silence is the sediment of life, the freedom of the soul.”
The truly awesome women know how to persevere in darkness, pursue richness in silence, and temper themselves in solitude. They understand the importance of silence, looking inward, and exploring themselves to discover their true selves.
They won’t let external factors hurt them, nor will they get trapped in negative emotions.
They can remain calm in these three aspects and live their best lives in every stage of their journey.
Marriage’s Uncertainties
“True human heroes are those who can control their emotions in extremely difficult environments and respond in a more noble way.”
Human nature is complex and mysterious.
Even if you’ve invested your heart and soul into a marriage, it’s still not a one-person show, but a two-person dance.
Women in relationships will inevitably face betrayal and hurt.
But when faced with marital uncertainties, some women will get angry and frustrated, while others will remain calm and composed.
They know that when a relationship has deteriorated, crying and screaming won’t help; they need to protect themselves to the greatest extent.
Just like Luo Zijun in the TV series.
When her wholehearted love was rejected, and her family was trampled upon, she cried and begged Chen Junsheng to stay.
But no matter how humble she was, her husband still left her for another woman.
She finally realized that complaining, arguing, and begging were useless.
With her friends’ help, she began to face reality calmly, became independent, and regained her confidence.
When she became more confident and determined, her image and demeanor also became more elegant and refined.
At that moment, Chen Junsheng looked at her with a mixture of regret and longing.
He began to appreciate her, just like appreciating a stranger.
As Aristotle once said, “The ultimate meaning of life lies not only in survival but also in the ability to awaken and reflect.”
Truly awesome women can remain calm in the face of marital uncertainties.
Their strength lies in their ability to remain silent in adversity and find themselves in the darkness.
Then, they can take control of their lives and stand up from the ashes.
Life’s Low Points
As Andersen once said, “People can only show their true wisdom in adversity.”
Truly awesome women don’t show off their strength by standing on a high mountain.
Instead, they remain calm and composed in the face of adversity, and turn their lives around.
Just like Yao Yuling in the TV series.
When her husband was arrested, and her life was turned upside down, she didn’t cry or complain.
Instead, she started selling lamb skewers on the street to make a living.
Although life was tough, she didn’t give up, and eventually, she began to live a more down-to-earth life.
Such women will one day rely on their own strength to overcome their struggles and achieve success.
Life is just like that—only by letting go of external dependencies can we see our true selves, and only by experiencing hardships can we gain confidence.
Great Success
Someone once said, “The hardest part is not achieving success, but staying calm after achieving success.”
A woman’s journey to success is undoubtedly difficult, but the hardest part is maintaining a calm and peaceful heart after achieving great success.
“Dear, there’s no one else, only yourself.”
Truly awesome women never waver in their thoughts because of external opinions or other people’s gazes.
Whether they’re facing difficulties or achieving success, they remain calm and composed.
They don’t blame themselves when they fail, nor do they show off when they succeed.
In their eyes, failure or success is just a necessary experience on their journey to their goals.
Just like Fucha Rong in the TV series “The Legend of Zhen Huan”.
From a small, insignificant lady-in-waiting, she rose to become a powerful queen.
No matter what position she held, she remained calm and composed.
She understood that if she boasted about her success, she would become a sacrifice in the ever-changing power struggle.
Only by remaining calm and composed could she stand firm in the treacherous palace.
For truly awesome women, they’re like a flower that blooms quietly in the darkness.
They don’t need others to appreciate their beauty; they shine brightly in the darkness, illuminating themselves, and that’s enough.
As the saying goes, “We walk too fast, and our souls can’t keep up.”
We’re often too busy expressing ourselves and seeking recognition.
“We once yearned for the turbulence of fate, only to discover that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and tranquility of the heart.”
Calmness is a powerful force for women, a wise and intelligent way to pursue their true selves.
In reality, everyone can remain calm in the chaos, independent and free in the midst of worldly troubles.
Yao Yuling picked up a burning firework stick that someone had discarded on the ground.
In that moment, the firework exploded, illuminating her aged face.
Life was still beautiful and warm, but it had already exceeded her imagination.
“Intelligence is not about having all the answers, but about being able to use all the answers to respond to questions.”
“A calm mind is not afraid of sorrow or joy, nor is it afraid of wind or rain.”
As the saying goes, “If you’re not strong enough, temporarily hide yourself, and keep learning, learning, and learning.
Temper yourself in solitude, and appear in the spotlight.”
By letting go of external dependencies, you’ll see your true self, and with confidence, you’ll walk forward, and your life will be bright and beautiful.